Some of us have had a really bad past but does that define
who you are today? Some would say yes because of the experiences and things
that have happened to them has shaped them to be who they are today. Some would
say no because it is the past and we all need to move on and always better
themselves. In my personal opinion, I think yes, your past does somewhat have a
factor to who yoy are today.
I have a friend whose dad died at a very young age. She
seeks and thrives on attention from men as she never had a dad and that
attention from a male figure from a young age. She flaunts herself to men and
she has a terrible reputation. She will go to any length to let a male notice
her. My question here though is, is it her fault? In one way I would say no.
This is how she has been brought up and some people feel it is the only way to
carry on and live. We also live in a
society where it is ok to do this. On the other hand no, as she should know
better than flaunt herself and receice attention in the wrong way. She can
never hold together a stable relationship and I always feel the need to help
her but there’s a saying “If you cannot help yourself, how are others going to
help you”?
The most important thing to do is to never judge these
people. No one knows what people have been through and it is simple ignorance
to judge a person as soon as you meet them. Yes, there are things that might
irritate us at first such as bragging about money, being loose etc. but do we
know what has made them do that? Probably not at first. “Never judge a book by
its cover” is a saying that I have become familiar with. Get to know people
before you judge a person.
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