Marriage is supposed to be the most sacred bond of all. It
is something that God created when two people love each other and they express
that love by getting married. Today, it has become just a legal piece of paper
that says they are married. It does not mean anything anymore. Why though? In
my opinion, more and more marriages are breaking up because it is the easy way
out. They do not want to work at it such as marriage counselling.
I come from a very strict religion where divorce is a no go
but I am seeing so many marriages being broken up that it is becoming the norm.
This makes me think as our generation are seeing this happen and it makes
us scared of being in a full time committed relationship that we are too scared
to even think of getting married , well me at least. I come from a divorced
family and it tears families apart. We are all so exposed to the media and what
the media says and it is making it easier for people to leave each other but the
fact is that it should not be this way and people should work on it and make it
work. If you not ready to get married, then don’t! It is not a race and wait
till you have experienced life and travelled and worked and find yourself as a
person because if not you are going to be stuck in the middle of the road and
have no way out but to end the marriage.
So true about the counselling thing, I don't think half of my parents divorced friends really went for counselling. I always wonder how couples can give up so easily, but I can't judge because I haven't been married. I just hope my future doesn't have me in this situation. Good piece Megs
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